I found the following on the excellent Canadian Jesuit website:
When suffering comes to put the question, “Who are you?” we must be able to answer distinctly and give our own name. By that I mean we must express the very depth of what we have desired to be and what we are becoming. And if we are becoming what we are supposed to become the interrogation of suffering will call forth from us both our name and the name of Jesus.
– adapted from Thomas Merton